How to tell if they're the one for you.

First lets start with the difference between real love and a crush that wears off. Real love is when you still like them and find them attractive for a long time where as a simple crush is when you see them for the first time and think they're really attractive, but then later you become bored and don't have the same feeling as before. Generally when you truly love someone, you fall in love with them as you get to know them. You fall in love with their personality and mind, instead of just liking them for their outer appearance.

Another way to know when you really love someone is that you're comfortable with them. You're not embarrassed to be yourself around them, where as if you were with someone else and you got really nervous around them. You're afraid to be yourself because you fear what they might think of you. You're afraid they might think you're weird or that you have problems. That there is a big flag warning that the relationship isn't going to work. If they can't accept you for who you are and you're not comfortable about everything with them, then they aren't right for you.

You should never pretend to be someone that you're not just to get someone to like you. It will only cause problems down the road, because you can't pretend forever.

It is also not a good idea to get married so quickly. Most marriage

 fail because couples rush in too quickly. They're young and in love and think that getting married is some big fantasy. Sure it might be perfect at first, but what happens later on when you change? You have all the time to get married, why not wait until you really are ready?

You know you really love somebody when you think to yourself, I would love this person no matter what they looked like. If something bad happened to them and they were ill or deformed, you'd still care for them and love them just the same. You'd stand by their side no matter what.

Written by Serenity Unis

• 1. The first one is to call your ex repeatedly asking them to take you back.

• 2. The second is telling your love you will change.

• 3. The third is attempting to discuss, or maybe even argue, what went wrong and the consequences of the breakup.

 Michael Webb has appeared on over 500 radio and television shows including Oprah, Men are From Mars/ Women are From Venus, NBC News, 700 Club, The Other Half, Iyanla, To Tell the Truth and FOX News. He has been featured in practically every major newspaper in the United States and is regularly mentioned in the nation's top magazines like Men's Health, Bridal Guide, Cosmopolitan, New Man, Women's Day, Family Circle and dozens others

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